Thursday, June 13, 2013

The desire for fulfilling work — a job that provides a deep sense of purpose, and reflects our values, passions and personality — is a modern invention. … For centuries, most inhabitants of the Western world were too busy struggling to meet their subsistence needs to worry about whether they had an exciting career that used their talents and nurtured their wellbeing. But today, the spread of material prosperity has freed our minds to expect much more from the adventure of life.

We have entered a new age of fulfillment, in which the great dream is to trade up from money to meaning.

Roman Krznaric in “How to Find Fulfilling Work” (via joanoh)
Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Diiv - Doused

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Tuesday, June 11, 2013
newyorker:

Cartoon by Edward Steed. For more: http://nyr.kr/ZdqYBe

newyorker:

Cartoon by Edward Steed. For more: http://nyr.kr/ZdqYBe

absence / absence

But isn’t desire always the same, whether the object is present or absent? Isn’t the object always absent? —This isn’t the same languor: there are two words: Pothos, desire for the absent being, and Himéros, the more burning desire for the present being.
Roland Barthes, The Absent One from A Lover’s Discourse, translation by Richard Howard (via frenchtwist)
Friday, June 7, 2013
In the U.S. every year, 207,754 people are raped, so there are also a whole bunch of people committing those rapes. What that means is that any comic who regularly performs in front of an audience is likely to spend at least some time telling jokes to someone who’s raped someone. And when he hears a joke like Tosh’s, that starts with “How can a rape joke not be funny?!” and goes on to say that a woman who interrupts him deserves to be raped –- or a joke like Morril’s (“My ex-girlfriend never made me wear a condom… She was on the pill: Ambien!”) –- he’s probably going to feel pretty comfortable in that room.

When he hears the laughs in response to Morril’s joke, he’s not liable to feel shame about the night the girl from the bar passed out when he got her upstairs; he’s probably going to feel like he’s surrounded by a bunch of people who agree that what he did wasn’t really a big deal. He’s going to be reassured that he’s not in a society that takes it seriously.

What Do Rapists Think About Rape Jokes? | xoJane (via brute-reason)

[Trigger Warning: Rape and Rape Culture]

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Thursday, June 6, 2013

Cairo, 2013.

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It’s dark because you are trying too hard. Lightly child, lightly. Learn to do everything lightly. Yes, feel lightly even though you’re feeling deeply. Just lightly let things happen and lightly cope with them. I was so preposterously serious in those days… Lightly, lightly – it’s the best advice ever given me…So throw away your baggage and go forward. There are quicksands all about you, sucking at your feet, trying to suck you down into fear and self-pity and despair. That’s why you must walk so lightly. Lightly my darling… ~ Aldous Huxley, Island (via thatkindofwoman)

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Who has not asked himself at some time or other: am I a monster or is this what it means to be a person?

Clarice Lispector, A Hora Da Estrela (via maxistentialist)

If I didn’t have any self-management I would only publish Clarice Lispector excerpts on my tumblr.

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